What if society decided you didn’t matter anymore? Imagine one day, your identity is taken away not because of something you did, but because of something that happened to you.! Your home, once filled with love, now feels cold. Your voice, once heard, is now ignored. Your future, once full of possibilities, is now dictated by outdated traditions. All because you lost your husband.
For millions of widows in India, this isn’t just a passing nightmare. It’s their everyday reality. India is home to more than 50 million widows, many of whom live in the shadows of cruel customs and regressive mindsets. The moment a woman loses her husband, society decides she has lost her worth.
Widowhood in India is not just grief. It is punishment. And yet, against all odds, some refuse to be erased. Meet the women who said ‘Enough’.
Ekal Nari Shakti Sansthan began in 1999 with a simple but radical belief: Widows are not just survivors. They are leaders, fighters, changemakers.
Founded by Ginny Shrivastava and Chandrakala Ji, the movement started as a safe space for widows to share their stories. What followed was nothing short of a revolution. Today, Ekal Nari has empowered over 100,000 widows to take back their rights and rebuild their lives.
They have turned their pain into power. They have refused to let widowhood define them. And now, it’s time for the world to do the same. The women of Ekal Nari are not different from us. They are mothers, daughters, and dreamers just like you, just like me. The only difference is that society decided their stories were over.
But stories are meant to be rewritten. And that’s where you come in. You just need to stand with those who refuse to be forgotten. If nothing changes, millions more women will vanish into silence. But if we act now, widowhood will no longer be a curse, it will be a new beginning.
So, what will you do?
Be their voice. Be their strength. Be their cape.
Ms Ginny Shrivastava, the founder of the Ekal Nari Shakti Sansthan is a Canadian by birth, Indian by marriage. She has worked in the NGO sector, organizing and training women leaders from tribal, single women communities. She also took tribal women leaders as resource persons for workshops in the NGO Forum of the Beijing World Conference on Women 1995; she was one of the PeaceWomen nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize in 2005; was awarded a Stree Shakti Award in 2014 for work with Single Women. Even today she continues as a “back-support” for the Rajasthan Single Women’s Organization.